Being a caregiver is one of the most challenging positions we can take on in life. Whether as a career or a caring family member, the responsibilities are the same and carry an equal amount of difficulties.
Usually, becoming a caregiver for a friend or family member isn’t something one has the opportunity to plan for. It tends to happen on its own terms surrounded by a whirlwind of emotions. Often, there is no opportunity to prepare for the changes that come with the responsibilities involved. It can be overwhelming.
A proactive approach can make all the difference. Setting your mind to be positive and determined will help limit stresses and encourage happiness in all who are involved. A lot of the issues that drive the need for care are progressive, meaning things tend to get more difficult as time goes on. So be prepared for things to worsen and it will help soften the blow.
There will be days when life is terrific, and then days that follow of great difficulty. Knowing how to navigate each moment will make things easier for both parties. Blossoms Senior Care has put together a few tips to help you understand your role and to get started on the right foot for your journey into care.
The Basics of your Caregiver Role
1. Be Patient – Acting as a caregiver is a way to ensure that you will feel tired, frustrated, and sometimes downright angry. This is normal, but you will need to try your very best to minimize the showing of negative in front of the individual receiving care. A good coping mechanism can make this easier to manage.
2. Be Predictable – A daily schedule and a predictable demeanour will help your loved one remain calm and relaxed. This is especially important if the care you are giving is to assist with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease.
3. Breakdown activities and tasks into steps – When someone is at the point that they need care, they usually cannot physically or mentally perform daily routine tasks like they once could. Breaking down these tasks into smaller, more manageable pieces will allow them the time and believe that they can get them done.
4. Show love and support – People who need care need more than someone to simply look after them. They need companionship and love. Do what you can to express your love and offer your support in any way they may need it.
5. Avoid Conflict – When people lose the ability to care for themselves, they can become angry. This is especially true for Alzheimer’s or dementia patients. Do what you can to reduce negative sentiment and mitigate any potential triggers to conflict. Reinforce a feeling of comfort and safety whenever possible.
6. Take care of yourself – Make sure to take care of yourself. Don’t allow for your frustration or stress to enable you to feel guilty. This is a normal part of the care process and tends to ease with time and experience. Take time for yourself; remember this person is someone you love. Keep in mind that you are not a superhero, and the emotions you are feeling are human. Get plenty of rest and take advantage of your breaks.
The burden of a caregiver can be a difficult endeavour. Our team is here to help.
Contact us today to learn more about looking after loved ones who need access to care. We will also introduce you to services Blossoms Senior Care Inc. can offer that will help make your job easier.